Another way of following up on your marital learning is to correspond together regularly by letter. Marital therapists and marriage-encounter groups use this technique, and I find it helpful to the couples. The rules are simple: 1. Write a one-page letter only. No typing, so write slowly and clearly. 2. Proofread your letter before sending [...]

Go after anybody you would like to try for. Forget the “league” concept. “Most of the women I wanted were not in my league,” stated one of the husbands. “I decided I had two choices: Stay in the minors or go for the majors.” Waiting, seducing, tricking, maneuvering, playing coy, being wise—all will fail. “I [...]